I’m approaching this
school year with several goals. One of those goals is to be a better teammate
to those with whom I work. I have the luxury of working with folks in all
different capacities in my district which means my interactions are varied and
our role-relationships are constantly evolving and changing. Having said that,
this unique situation for me doesn’t diminish the importance of being a great
teammate to everyone with whom I work. Here are five ways I hope to be a better
teammate this year:
Be the type of teammate
who is first on the scene and the last to leave. It’s easy to talk about doing
something, but the best teammates I’ve worked with didn’t just talk about it,
they actually did it. They also were there in the end to make sure everything
was done right. Be the teammate that people can count on and rely on. Be the
type of teammate who leads by example. Be the type of teammate who is there for
others when others aren’t. This is going to be your year… this is going to be
your team’s year… so good luck!
Give praise, but make sure you
are genuine:
We all know that
teammate who seems to be full of compliments and kind words. This same teammate
always has something nice to say and always showers others with words of
praise. We all feel good when being praised and we all enjoy being recognized
for our work, but like all good things, praise is best served in moderation.
Don’t shy away from giving praise, but do make sure that it’s genuine and
warranted, because if it’s not it will come off insincere and will actually
negate any positive effect.
Dish out challenges, but make
sure you are supportive:
The best colleagues
I’ve worked with have always challenged me. They’ve pushed me and they’ve made
me a better educator and I honestly believe a better person. They’ve challenged
me to do things I didn’t think were possible and things I didn’t think I would
ever be able to accomplish. They helped to paint a picture of what could be
rather than continuing with what is. The important key here with these
colleagues has been their support and encouragement that followed the challenge
and the push. It’s because of that support I knew I could push myself and reach
beyond my level of comfort. Be that type of colleague on your team. Be the type
of teammate who pushes and challenges but stands right there with you when the
going gets tough.
Be quick to question, but make
sure you are respectful:
Far too often we find
ourselves with a team full of ‘yes’ people. We’ve become scared to ask
questions and more often than not we choose harmony over a situation that could
have some type of disagreement. The teams that function best are the teams that
have people who aren’t afraid to ask questions. It’s the people who ask the
hard questions when nobody else will who help to move an idea or an initiative
forward. The key to asking these hard questions is to do so respectfully and
appropriately. At times this means asking a question in private and not in
front of the group. Other times, it means presenting a possible solution with
the question. Either way, a team that has artificial harmony because people are
afraid to ask questions will never reach a high level of effectiveness.
Be sure to speak your mind, but
make sure you listen first:
It’s Ok to have an
opinion. In fact, I think it’s preferred over not having an opinion. But, be
sure that before you voice your opinion to take the time to actually listen.
Human nature is to start formulating a response while the other person is still
talking which disengages us from actually paying attention to what the other
person is saying. Do your best to give your teammates your undivided attention
and then feel free respond, but whatever you do, be sure to completely listen
first. Also, keep in mind that if you’re never speaking your mind, then what
value are you adding to the team? Be an active participate, not a passive
bystander.
Be the first and the last on the
scene: